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comfort people must speak the psychological skills, according to each other's psychological activities,abercrombie, giving the most intimate comfort.
listen, sympathy,doudoune moncler, they will perceive our inner fluctuation. If we were able to "sad with his grief for his happiness,scarpe hogan, his happiness", to comfort, this is to give his best to help.
psychological said "lay down their own world, to accept the other people in the world", is the truth. The best comfort, is temporarily down himself, into their inner world,moncler pas cher, with his eyes to see his face, but not judge.
comfort people, listening is more important than saying. A depressed heart needs tender ear, not the logical, coherent brain. Listen with our ears and heart to hear each other's voices, don't ask what antecedents and consequences, do not rush to judgment,barbour jackets, to give each other space, let him be free to express their feelings.
psychological comfort is an important concept: "comfort does not equal treatment. The treatment is to make people change, by changing to sever anguish; and comfort is the bitter, not trying to make a try to break their distress." In fact, in the process of comforting, any solution offers are likely to fail or not applicable, make others disappointed again, therefore, do not give opinions without intervention, listening, understanding and recognition of its distress, is one of the most > Comfort
comfort people the biggest obstacle, often lies in the fact that comfort can not understand, experience, identity that distressed parties. It is easy to be distressed is limited in the definition of self can understand the scope, once more than this range, is the "bitter" have no sense. Due to speak to others "bitter" not to regard it as right,louboutin pas cher, therefore, comfort is easy to produce resistance in the process of listening,hogan, unable to hold oneself back to put forward their own views. Therefore,韩版长裤, comfort need to abandon their ingrained ideas, acknowledge their bias, really stand on each other's point of view the problems he faces.
to listen to the troubled
to accept each other's world
when a friend is sad, a lot of people are saying: "do not cry, be brave". Either to help analyze problems, told him, "you should do", and people will say: "I already told you......"
because of the experience,air jordan pas cher, education, family background, different from everyone,louboutin, form different understanding in distress. Therefore, when trying to comfort a person, must first understand his distress.
to explore each other's road
comforter often feel, to their obligation to each other to propose solutions. However, each being distressed torture people, seeking comfort before, almost all have a try, we failed quest. So, we have to do is, to explore each other through the road,hollister pas cher, understand the struggle experience,全场女装包邮, let him be heard, is understood, accepted, and informed him that he had done enough, good enough, this is a kind of comfort.
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